There is no such thing as luck.
Only preparation meeting opportunity.
– COACH LOMBARDI
What I’m going to tell you: (1) Define her. (2) Look in the right places. (3) You don’t choose, women choose. (4) Start dating, anyone. (5) How you develop confidence.
Where Not To Look
Let this it in, all the way: Do NOT look any place she’s trying to meet men. Don’t bother with places where men out-number women significantly such as 65 percent men or worse. In short, any sports event.
Every T-babe since 1999 says a version of this, “Don’t even talk with me when I am at the spa.” When pressed, they say versions of, “I look a mess and I’m all sweaty. A man is the last thing on my mind, the last!”
Anywhere the crowd is under 35. That’s all about peer pressure and peer approval. In a class like Swiss Franc Investments. In your living room watching Monday Night Football. Any place where women work close together like bank tellers.
Bars or Clubs
Everyone’s blowing smoke up everybody else’s ass. Nobody wants to get hurt, again. Experience teaches them all, “Do unto others, before they do unto you.”
Warning! Females are worse than the competition from men in these places. Babes pit one guy against another. That’s evolutionary. Sometimes they do it for their own sadistic amusement or to entertain their girlfriends.
If that’s not enough reality to make you go elsewhere, consider who goes to bars. Alcoholics, people who don’t have real friends, losers of all stripes. In short, people with no life, male or female.
Desirable women can choose from over 200 males a day without going to a bar where they have to deal with players, liars, married men, alcoholics, and men with no life.
Where To Look
Any place she’s NOT trying to meet men. You are not compared to or pitted against so many competitors. She’s only slightly defensive when she’s at a friend’s party. At a wedding, she’s in a great mood dancing and drinking champagne!
Find her where she works, ideally at your major multi-tenant office building with a central cafeteria.
She is working or eating at a restaurant near your office or home. Any office you visit, including your dentist and doctor’s office. Wherever you shop, including supermarkets! I have dated two cashiers and one box girl. It’s normal to talk with them.
Classrooms are prime hunting grounds. Take night or day classes at the local college, junior college or community education center that are interesting to females.
Pick the best looking male candidate and volunteer for that campaign. Volunteers for handsome candidates are 70 percent women!
Women love to save the world. End Hunger walkathons, Save the Unborn Gay Whales, Tree Hugging activities of any kind. These events all have some area where you can mingle.
There are plenty of hostesses, waitresses and female restaurant managers within 15 minutes of your home or office.
Get invited to every wedding, any wedding, anywhere, anytime. No matter how old the bride or groom is women of all ages will be everywhere. If you have steel balls, crash, rather, wander into, any reception after it’s been going for an hour.
