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Seduction |
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Seduction is a progression one step at a time
You don't seduce a woman by having coffee with her and saying "well how about some sex".
Seduction is slow, one step at a time.
After dinner at a restaurant, suggest another glass of champagne to celebrate life.
Then suggest you know a great spot to watch the sunset.
While driving there, say "what a wonderful day it's been. I'd love another small glass of champagne".
Pull into a bottle department for a bottle of champagne and 2 glasses.
If they do not have glasses, no matter, as you have already got 2 (& a rug, in the boot - be prepared).
Drive to the sunset. Open the champagne.
If she says "you are trying to get me drunk".
Answer "I find drunk people unpleasant. I want to sip a small glass of champagne to celebrate" as you fill a glass for her.
If you start to kiss, keep kissing.
If it gets better, suggest you get the rug to lie on the cliff overlooking the sunset.
If it gets better, suggest a coffee at your place (yes, you have coffee & some desert already in the fridge).
Continue from there.
Seduction is like a dance, just one step after another.
The famous Stop Start technique
You are at your place.
You have not mated before.
You start kissing.
After a few minutes you stop. Get up and change the music, go freshen up your drink, possibly freshen up hers.
The point is to interrupt the kissing.
Then resume kissing.
After 5 - 10 minutes, stop again.
Change music volume, track, etc. Get a glass of water, anything so long as you interrupt the kissing.
Why do this?
If she had already decided to sleep with you then no problem.
If she had not decided yet, kissing at your place & getting hot & heavy may be moving too fast for her.
She may feel she is "loosing control" & wanting you.
Combine this with thought of "I'm not sure if I want to yet".
If you continue kissing & fondling, she may get scared & put a stop to it.
By using the Stop Start technique, you give her a break to get composed, realize she likes what's happening,
and lets her decide she would like to sleep with you.
If she was not ready, she would not have slept with you anyway. Hence there is no "down side" to using this technique.
If she was unsure, this gives her the time to get herself ready to sleep with you. If she was joing to have sex already, then she will just rip your clothes off!
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