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Call between 24 and 36 hours
All females, from 18 to 80 say the same thing. Call between 24 and 36 hours.
If you call before 24 hours, you are too keen. If you are so keen, she already knows she could
have you if she wanted to. You are not a challenge. Yes, the rumors are true. Females DO like a challenge.
One other rule. Never call her during the weekend. Your life is so full, you do not have time
to call her on the weekend. In particular, do not call on Friday or Saturday night (it shows
you are not out and labels you as a loser).
The younger the female, the less successful your call is after the 36 hours deadline.
To young females, a week is a loooong time. If you call within 3 days (36 hours), she remembers you and
remembers the good times she had. If you call after 4 days, she remembers your name, but not what you
did together. If you call after 5 days, she does not recognize your name. When you repeat your name and
explain where you met
& what you did, she feels stupid for not remembering. Now she is embarrassed and thinks she looks
foolish to a powerful man. She may not even be able to continue the conversation and will look for a
reason to cut it off to regain her composure.
When you call, just set up the get together. Do not stay on the phone longer than 5 minutes. The more you speak, the more she learns about you. This lessens the mystery. Organize the time, place and get off the phone. If she says "don't you like talking on the phone" respond with "Debbie, I'd rather speak with you in person. I am looking forward to lunch". Else, "I have my gym class in 30 minutes. Gotta go". Remember, you are a successful man, and as such you are too busy to wile away the hours on a phone call.
How to call
Have a plan. Men are decisive. Boys by comparison, call and ramble, have no plan, when the girl says
"what do you want to do"? boys answer "I don't mind. What do you want to do, yada, yada". You get the picture.
As a MAN, you are calling to set up a get together.
As a MAN, you lead a full and interesting life, AND you are may have time to see her.
You have 1 or 2 coffee shops, or places to meet already picked out.
You know which days you are free to go.
You have plan A, B and C, depending on how she sounds on the phone (
positive, neutral or negative).
You call "Hi Debbie it's Don. We met at the sales conference".
Then shut up. Sense her vibes.
If positive "we spoke about going to xyz. Lets go later in the week, after 3.00pm is good for me.
How does that sound"? Then shut up. If she says "Thursday" you say
"Good 3.00pm it is, and I have a meeting back in the office at 4.30pm". See you then". click.
If neutral "we spoke about going to xyz. Lets go next week, how does that sound"?
If she comes back with a day, continue as above. If she offers an alternative & it is ok with
you - agree. If she is hard to tie down, say "looks like our schedules don't match.
I'll call you in 2 weeks when mine is clearer". Click.
If negative, say "sounds like it's not a good time. I'll call you later". Click.
Call her in a few days. If negative, same response and then never call again. There are easier ones to get.
What to do if you reach an answering machine
If you call and reach an answering machine. Leave a message, be brief (brevity = authority).
Do NOT hang up. She KNOWS you called. Even if she does not have caller ID, she still KNOWS that you called.
If you call repeatedly, she knows she has got you. She knows you are desperate to get in touch.
Hence, call & leave a message. That's it. Something like "It's Don. We spoke of our favourite plays while at the ABC conference. Call me on 123456 or on my cell 456789. Talk to you then".
If she does not call back, that is an answer to you advances. Accept it & move on.
Never answer your phone
Men lead interesting full lives. We do not answer the phone
(especially on a Friday or Saturday night as being home means you are a loser).
We let the answering machine take the call. Then if do want to speak with
the woman, we can call back in a few minutes with "just stepped in the door,
just got back from my run, etc".
Also, we prepare plan A, B and C. Where will you take her?
What night's are you free? No chatting, just 5 minutes max to set up the get together.
As a man with a full and interesting life, you set up the get together and then
get off the phone. You have things to do, the gym to go to, a run, some study, business to
take care of, etc.
Recommendation - My books and video cover "when to call" and a whole lot more. There is no single video on just "when to call". It would be too small.
When to call is one of many small areas that can kill your chances with a woman if done incorrectly.
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