Let it happen, don’t make it happen!
– DATE YOUNG WOMEN
The purpose of dating? It’s something to do until she decides if she is going to take the last step of courtship and enjoy sex with you!
Wait an extra day or call a few hours later than you have before. DOUBT + HOPE = DESIRE. We don’t make or suggest dates to voice mail! If she did not signal “kiss me now” during or at the end of the second date you want a Friday or Saturday night date. Most common mistake? Not making this date more romantic, more sensual, more sexual than the last one! Ever increasing intensity is required.
The must haves: Alcohol. Easy to talk and touch. Near her place to have dessert if she suggests it! The main goal of this date is to pass the more strenuous testing. Future thinking is fatal. When you expect sex you don’t get sex. She will be “on guard” against you trying anything! Trying is dying, take your cues from her. That applies to fourth, fifth, sixth dates.
Third dates have a reputation. Friends posing as experts say, “Gotta make your move on the third date!” Nope! She decides when you have passed her “entrance tests”. Take your cues from her.
Be sensual and sexual from the moment you see her. Let her linger with her two titty hug and say in her ear sensually “Ummmmm . . . nice . . . to see you . . .
Touch her from the absolute get go. Eye contact with flashes of lust now and then. You must go first. Be sensual in small increments until she follows. Touching is the most sensual. Gentle conversation while looking into her eyes and letting your eyes do the real talking is sensual.
On every date with Debbie, movies are mentioned and talked about. Favorites of hers, including genres are in your notes.
She watches you for any indication that you lack confidence.
Answer the question.
Tell the diplomatic/tactful truth. KISS.
Increase your desirability with the answer!
How about you?
Testing is Forever and Ever
The main goal of this date is to pass the more strenuous testing. She might even begin the examination by being late on purpose! So far you have passed all of these tests or you wouldn’t be on a THIRD date!
At the Wedding You Passed
- Not crazy
- Safe
- Interesting
- Not a Nice Guy
- Preliminary provide, protect
- Desirable
- Possible Date
- Mysterious
First Phone Call You Passed
- Has courage
- Man has a plan
- Sound like a man
- Can’t be manipulated
- Won’t sit like a good doggie
On the First Date You Passed
- Tits/hugs don’t control you
- Not a Nice Guy
- Has a future
- Not carrying a torch
- Has a life
- Not Mommy’s boy
- Advanced provide, protect
- Desirable sexually
- Seem like you can take it or leave it
- Remains mysterious thus interesting
- Possible second date
Second Phone Call You Passed
- Man has a plan
- Sound like a man
- Weren’t manipulated
- Won’t sit like a good doggie
- Kept your mystery on phone
On the Second Date You Passed
- Tits/hugs don’t control you
- Not a Nice Guy
- Has a future
- Advanced testing
- Desirable sexually
- Probable third date
- If much kissing and hugging
- Probable sex partner
- Possible Lover
- Seem like you can take it or leave it
- Remains somewhat mysterious thus interesting
When she does stop talking and is staring at your lips, you MUST kiss her even in the Pizza Palace! NOT at the end of the date!
Be in charge. You are the one who ends the date. It preserves your power and mystery.
Call her a day or three later and suggest, with a solid Plan A, something that she was positive about . . . We should BBQ this weekend . . .or . . . new James Bond DVD/on demand.