Young women and not so young women band together to prevent each other from meeting any male especially an older, attractive man! They act like nuns keeping and eye on each other when away from their boyfriends in a bar or a classroom. Classic “group cock-blocking”!
Once a hen house forms, it’s as impossible to meet her as it is to exchange numbers with a young woman bank teller who is surrounded by envious, hostile females on all sides. Hens will say and do anything to keep her from talking with a rooster like you for more than 20 seconds! Why? Not a one of them is a genuine friend who wants her to be happy. They all want her to stay in a boring relationship like each of them is!
On the last day of the workshop I show guys what I do with a Hen House at a party or a wedding reception. I put all T-babes in a hen house group across the room. The girls talk and laugh as if they are at a wedding. Work shoppers get on the other side of the Hen House looking through the girls at me. I’m standing 10 feet from the Hen House.
One of the T-babes and I exchange I-Am-Interested body language, then again. I wait a bit then catch her eye hold eye contact as I walk directly toward her. Given my trajectory, speed and look on my face she senses I’m going to butt into her circle. She looks a bit nervous. I continue purposefully looking directly at her. With only 18 inches to go before I break into the Hen House I turn hard left and continue to the bar.
I stop, turn and look at her. She gets the idea and at the first opportunity breaks away and comes to the bar and innocently stands about 5 feet from me. Or, more often goes to the bathroom. When she comes back she either comes to the bar or stands by herself away from the hen house. I nod. She reciprocates. I move toward her, extend my hand and intro myself. From there religiously follow the 10 Commandments of Meeting in Date Young Women.